Picked this up from the library (and glad I did) even though I haven’t finished this nor this (it’s been really slow going and not because of the material, I actually enjoy both books immensely).
a blog.
This really isn’t something I’m reading, it’s more like something I’m doing. This book is basically a Pilates manual, actually it’s THE Pilates manual from the creator of Pilates. I’ve been wanting to learn and practice it the original way, so I’m working through this during 75 hard (not as my non-fiction book, but as exercise).
Started this book a while ago and didn’t finish it though I was enjoying it, picking it back up again.
“Andrew, if I should not see you again, I wish you to remember and treasure up some things I have already said to you: in this world you will have to make your own way. To do that you must have friends. You can make friends by being honest, and you can keep them by being steadfast. You must keep in mind that friends worth having will in the long run expect as much from you as they give to you. To forget an obligation or be ungrateful for a kindness is a base crime–not merely a fault or a sin, but an actual crime. Men guilty of it sooner or later must suffer the penalty. In personal conduct be always polite but never obsequious. None will respect you more than you respect yourself. Avoid quarrels as long as you can without yielding to imposition. But sustain your manhood always. Never bring a suit in law for assault and battery or for defamation. The law affords no remedy for such outrages that can satisfy the feelings of a true man. Never wound the feelings of others. Never brook wanton outrage upon your own feelings. If you ever have to vindicate your feelings or defend you honor, do it calmly. If angry at first, wait till your wrath cools before you proceed.”
“You cannot have forgotten the advice I give to all my young friends,” Jackson wrote an acquaintance in 1826, ” that is to say, as they pass through life have apparent confidence in all, real confidence in none, until from actual experience it is found that the individual is worthy of it–from this rule I have never departed…When I have found men mere politicians, bending to the popular breeze and changing with it, for the self-popularity, I have ever shunned them, believing that they were unworthy of my confidence–but still treat them with hospitality and politeness.”